‘Slactivists‘ is a term coined by an incredible communicator and writer, Tim Elmore. It is a hybrid of ‘slackers’ and ‘activists’.
Slactivists are people who honestly desire to make a lasting change to the world and to improve it in someway. They have great intentions, but often lack the energy to keep the fire in their eyes alive. Lofty dreams are lost in a sea of doubt and impatience. When the work to improve the world proves difficult, they often drop the movement and find a new one.
An example of this is the thousands of Kony Action Kits that were sold in 2012 as a result of a viral video about the infamous Ugandan warlord, Joseph Kony. You can view the powerful video here. The video & kits were created by Invisible Children, an organization focused on bringing awareness to the activities of the Lord’s Resistance Army in Uganda and their child soldiers. As someone who was personally involved in the organization in high school and college, I purchased a kit myself. However, many of us who bought a kit did nothing with it. We just stuffed it in our closet and forgot about it.
I also recall the popular ‘I Love Boobies’ bracelets that were made to spread breast cancer awareness. Or how about The Butterfly Project which encourages those struggling with cutting and those who want to support them positively to instead draw a butterfly on their wrist. Or Day of Silence, a GLBTQ protest against oppression where the participants place duct tape across their mouths.
All of these causes are powerful and have a huge impact on others. But I feel like so many of us participate only for show: are we really looking to make a lasting difference? Or are we just trying to blend in?
Let’s not spread ourselves too thin. It takes passion to make a lasting difference, not just participation.
– Jenni xx
Too many times in the past I have taken advice from indecisive and frightened people. Taking council from someone who have no investment in my decisions emotionally, mentally, or physically is a destructive action. I am basically guaranteeing that whatever they tell me will be bad advice.
They may have good intentions (usually a misguided sense of ‘protecting me’) but often, they are hindering me. I need to make sure I take support and advice from someone who has already accomplished what I want to accomplish in my own life. Not from those who haven’t. The irony of it all is that those who haven’t accomplished what I want tend to be the loudest discouragers.
Don’t get me wrong, our families and friends love us. And we should always make time to spend with them and should love them dearly. But once we come head-to-head with major decisions in our lives, we need to be single-minded. I’m a huge believer in running my decisions by my mentors. But there are plenty of people in my life that are not the slightest-bit qualified for that role.
Have the courage to make bold decisions.
– Jenni xx
I read a lot of books. The one I am currently delved into is Doing The Impossible by Patrick Bet-David. You can purchase it here. Often when I’m reading, I come across an excerpt that I need to share. This tugged at my heartstrings.
“Big Mike and Little Mike have been best friends and neighbors their entire lives. Big Mike plays football for his school, but he is very lazy. His coach searches in vain for a way to motivate him and tap into his potential, but Big Mike seems content to do the bare minimum and ride the bench. Then one day right after practice, Little Mike is hit by a car right in front of Big Mike and dies in his friend’s arms. The coach expects Big Mike will need to take some time off from football to mourn the loss of his best friend. But just the opposite happens. Monday morning comes and Big Mike is on the field early, putting 110% into practice. Friday night’s big game comes and Big Mike asks his coach to start him in the game. He plays like his life depends on it; he gets six sacks, four interceptions, and the winning touchdown. At the end of the game, Big Mike’s coach comes up to him and asks, “What happened to you? I have never seen you play like that.” Big Mike explains that it was the first game that Little Mike ever got to watch him play. You see, Little Mike was blind and Big Mike wanted to play a great game for his friend looking down on him from heaven. Little Mike was the WHY that lit the fire under Big Mike.”
WOW, what a powerful story.
The point of it all is that mankind is lazy until something catches their heart. The ‘how’ is useless without the ‘why’. How many people do you know or hear of that are absolutely miserable, but surrounded by money? Too many, I can imagine.
Discover your ‘why’ and you’ll always find a ‘how.’
– Jenni xx
My mom is always sending the cutest emails! This is one I received this morning that really touched me. Enjoy!
A man was sleeping one night in his cabin when suddenly his room filled with light, and God appeared. The Lord told the man he had work for him to do, and showed him a large rock in front of his cabin. The Lord explained that the man was to push against the rock with all his might.
So, this the man did, day after day. For many years he toiled from sun-up to sundown, his shoulders set squarely against the cold, massive surface of the unmoving rock, pushing with all his might! Each night the man returned to his cabin sore and worn out, feeling that his whole day had been spent in vain.
Since the man was showing discouragement, the Adversary (Satan) decided to enter the picture by placing thoughts into the man’s weary mind. (He will do it every time!) “You have been pushing against that rock for a long time and it hasn’t moved.” Thus, he gave the man the impression that the task was impossible and that he was a failure.
These thoughts discouraged and disheartened the man. Satan said, “Why kill yourself over this? Just put in your time, giving just the minimum effort, and that will be good enough.” That’s what the weary man planned to do, but decided to make it a matter of prayer and to take his troubled thoughts to the Lord.
“Lord,” he said, “I have labored long and hard in Your Service, putting all my strength to do that which you have asked. Yet, after all this time, I have not even budged that rock by half a millimeter. What is wrong? Why am I failing?”
The Lord responded compassionately, “My friend, when I asked you to serve Me and you accepted, I told you that your task was to push against the rock with all of your strength, which you have done. Never once did I mention to you that I expected you to move it. Your task was to push. And now you come to Me with your strength spent, thinking that you have failed. But, is that really so? Look at yourself. Your arms are strong and muscled, your back shiny and brown; your hands are callused from constant pressure, your legs have become massive and hard. Through opposition you have grown much, and your abilities now surpass that which you used to have. True, you haven’t moved the rock. But your calling was to be obedient and to push and to exercise your faith and trust in My wisdom. That you have done. Now I, my friend, will move the rock.”
At times, when we hear a word from God, we tend to use our own intellect to decipher what He wants, when actually what God wants is just simple obedience and faith in Him. By all means, exercise the faith that moves mountains, but know that it is still God who moves the mountains.
When everything to go wrong, just P.U.S.H.
When the job gets you down, just P.U.S.H.
When people don’t do as you think they should, just P.U.S.H.
When your money is “gone” and the bills are due, just P.U.S.H.
When people just don’t understand you, just P.U.S.H.
P = Pray
U = Until
S = Something
H = Happens
“Though no one can go back and make a brand new start, anyone can start from now and make a brand new ending.”
“Friends are quiet angels who lift us to our feet when our wings have
trouble remembering how to fly.”
May God Bless You.
Angela R. Lane, Business Technology
Memphis Health Careers Academy
Mom’s are the best, aren’t they? 🙂
I remember sitting in my 12th grade English class and learning how to construct a résumé. I was mentally memorizing the basics : hard-worker, fast-learner, and excellent organization skills. I think we can all agree that listing ‘good organization skills’ on our résumés under ‘Special Skills’ is almost second nature. So as a result, I always included it. However, it wasn’t until I landed the ‘big girl’ job I have now that I realized my so called ‘excellent organization skills’ were pretty much non-existent.
I’m not typically a messy person on the exterior though. My closet is color-coded and sorted by length, my desk’s drawers are labeled, and I even use different color highlighters for different kinds of information when studying. My biggest issue was organizing my brain.
It may sound a bit cheeseball when I say it like that. Maybe a better word is scatterbrained. I’d wake up in the morning and know that I had X amount of things that needed to get done that day. I’d sit at my desk to work and immediately think of everything that needed to be completed. Usually I would make a cumulative list. But I would be so overwhelmed with everything that needed to be done that I’d end my day with only about half of the items marked off my list. This was always discouraging because I knew that even with a busy schedule, I had plenty of time to finish it all. Why?
Well, partly this was because I was worrying too much about the amount. But that’s another blog for another day! My biggest issue was my sense of priority. After mindlessly jotting down a bunch of random things, I’d tend to skip around and get the ‘easiest’ and most enjoyable items done first. And then skipping over the most important ones. Then my dad taught me a system that he’s been using for years.
IMPORTANT & URGENT
URGENT but NOT IMPORTANT
IMPORTANT but NOT URGENT
NOT IMPORTANT or URGENT
Write down these four titles on four different folders. If you receive a document that is important and not urgent, slip in its appropriate file. If there’s something you need to do that’s both urgent and important, make a note and place it in it’s file. When you begin your day or sit down at work, open the important & urgent file and knock everything off the list right away! You’ll find that this will also open up some more time for the not important & not urgent list… Which tends to be made up of our favorite and most distracting activities! (Netflix & video games, anyone?!)
See? Simple as pie! Give it a try if you’re finding yourself as scatterbrained as I once was. 🙂
– Jenni xx
Today was the kind of day that I had 100% booked with a million things to do… and then plans changed unexpectedly all across the board. Thank goodness for frequently educating myself the art of flexibility within my day-to-day schedule! Or I could’ve been a right piece of work & no one would’ve wanted to deal with a nasty bad attitude… oh, how I’ve progressed in the past few months! 🙂
Here is something my mom told me this afternoon as I relayed to her that I felt I was being ‘flaked-on’ and ‘not taken seriously’ and ‘working around the schedule of everyone but myself’ : “Well, you can’t live anyone else’s life but Jen-Jen’s.” Yes, Jen-Jen is one of the many nicknames my parents have for me. But these words hold a lot of truth.
It is true that when you have plans with another person, you need to work together to find a set time & date that works well for both parties. But if someone continually calls you last minute to cancel or regularly ‘forgets’ and doesn’t show up at all… it may be time to move on. This applies to friends, love interests, business clients, etc. For a long time, I’d often bow down to the time of others & let my day mold around everything anyone else needed to take care of – even if it meant multiple changes of plans & constant excuses. I felt like an awkward fish flopping on a deck when they didn’t show up or called to cancel! Here’s an example:
Isn’t it interesting, when we’re out & about… how we will meet a stranger or see a face that sticks with us all day long? Maybe even longer? Perhaps they had an exceptionally kind gesture towards us or just ‘something about them‘…
When I was younger, I used to say to my parents that this phenomenon was ‘Jesus in disguise, daddy!’ or ‘I think that was an angel in the car in front of us who paid for your coffee!’ or ‘I’m sure of it, God was asking him to let us merge into traffic!’
As I grew older, this idea faded into the back of my mind… it was silly.
But I know now that I walk in God’s favor. He is always watching out for me. Like a personal body guard. And His promises are better than any fortune cookie could give me!
Happy to be alive! It has been a thoughtful morning at my desk… and tonight is date night with my beau! Going to a fun restaurant that includes a live show whilst gobbling up some delicious grub. It is a bit of a drive to get there, but well worth it!
Much love, xx
It has been MONTHS since I last blogged… and a busy several months it has been! A summer’s worth of hard work & soul searching. Isn’t it funny how sometimes the things we are so anxious about doing turn out to be the best experiences? Goes to show that stepping out of one’s comfort zone is actually the only way to have the extraordinary things in life!
Writing is something I love. Blogging included, but mostly fiction. Short stories. Poetry. I want to write more. I have begun to use my time more wisely by working on my organization skills & self-discipline. It’s tough work, but well worth it!
Learning to set aside time to do what you love is very important. 🙂
Lots of love,